Everybody deserves a second chance. There is a popular saying that goes:"love is give and take" more like "quid pro quo", but i beg to deviate from this popular view. My ideology about relationship is give! give! and give!! if the person you care for does reciprocate; all well and good, but if not don't lose hope but keep on loving.


 Your attitude might be the saving grace for that person: meaning that your reaction to this individual's unloving behaviour can ultimately make the individual who is seemingly incapable of loving - a better person. Think of it: God, the creator of us all; who could at the snap of His finger destroy the whole earth, still loves us inspite of all our shortcomings. He sends rain on both the good and the bad, the sun, on both the good and the bad it shines; He loved us when we were not deserving of His love. How could we then, not do likewise - since we were created in His image Genesis 1:27. Everybody deserves a second chance: so does your neighbour(spouse/friend).

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